When people ask us to describe ourselves, we often use adjectives such as kind, nice, outgoing,extrovert, introvert, people person..bla..bla..bla but have you ever really pondered about it? I mean are you sure you are what you describing?
I used to describe myself as funny, goofy, outgoing and all the characteristics of extrovert person and I believed that they are the most suitable words to desribe myself..but one day..something happened to me and I felt that I wasn't the person I used to be. I got confuse at that time..because somehow I felt totally opposite what I had described myself before, 'coz I was such a loner and negative and gloomy and all the dark sides of me seemed to take control..In other word I felt like totally loser and crashed at the lowest point in my life.
As I tried to know myself better with such deep contemplation, I finnaly figured out that I actually couldn't stick on a label. People do change..I've changed. There are always two sides in every human being. I can't say that this is scientifically proven yet that's the perfect answer for what I'd felt. One day I can be happy and shining and all that positive stuff but the next day I can be totally sad and gloomy.
Things that had happened to us totally shaped who we are..So anytime someone ask me to describe myself i'd say "sorry, but I don't stick to any label."
And how about you? who are you?
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